Session Wrestling gone Right!!

I was a little hesitant to post this blog about session wreslting on the “naked” wreslting news site. I want to state for the record that none of my sessions are done nude or topless. I wear sports clothing or sometimess a bikini for my sessions and nothing sexual in nature ever goes on during my sessions. With that said, I would like to rant about my love for mixed wrestling and sessions.

xoxox

Ariel X

Last October, I started doing  mixed session wrestling. I was very hesitant to do sessions because I didn’t understand the nature of them. Prior to offering sessions publicly, I had received a lot of private emails from fans who were basically looking for escort work for said “sessions”. It wasn’t until I drilled a lot of my gal pals who did the sessions about their work that I learned how innocent the sessions are. Of course, there are still and always will be dudes, who are looking for a “release” but the usually address that in an email in the beginning and weed themselves out very early in the conversations.
Most of my sessions are me putting a guy in various holds while he tries to defend himself but doesn’t fight back or get offensive in the slightest. Then I have the scissor guys who only want me to use my leg scissors to hold and submit them. I have a handful of guys who want to do competitive wrestling with me. The competitive stuff is what really charges me up. I absolutely love going competitive with large men.
Recently I have made “friends” with a gentleman with whom I’ve been doing session. I have sessioned with him a few times now. The first time we grappled we went “semi competitive” which was awesome…I kicked his butt…he asked me to come back a few days later and asked me to “be mean this time”. I honestly didn’t know what that meant. I’m not a mean person. I would never want anyone to feel as if I was going to harm him or her on person just for the sake of it. I had no idea what being Mean meant. I jokingly asked ” do you want me to punch you?” he said and I quote ” HELL NO”. He was able to articulate what he didnt’ want…but it was very hard for him to articulate what he DID want. I supposed it’s like being in a relationship with a wife who always tells you what you do that pisses her off but never tells you what she loves about you hahah ….it was up to me to figure it out and be the mind reader like most husbands have to be.
So we went for and hour taking very little breaks and with me dominating from the start. He asked if I he could offer me more money to stay and grapple a little longer and I agreed. I could tell he was tired. Though this was supposed to be a semi competitive match, it wasn’t very competitive. I had worn him out in the first hour and he was basically just putty in my hands. I could move him around into any position and get any hold I wanted. I was fighting back but barely. To punish him for paying for an extra hour but not fighting back, I put him in a lot of choke holds. I would get him in leg scissor, eziekles, rear nakeds…you name it..he got it. At first I would put him in a hold, let him tap and then start something new….but he didn’t seem to be fighting back much. “Hmmm” in thought ” this guy might be enjoying this too much and he did want me to ‘be mean’ so I should be a little less accommodating “. I decided that if I got him in a hold and he tapped, I would released, only for enough time for him to catch his breath and then re-apply that very same hold. In theory, this would teach him that he was in a trouble spot and if he wanted to get out he better damn well fight back. This would force him to be more competitive.
I put him in a side leg scissor. I choked him slowly while I watched the look on his face to make sure he was okay. I slowly squeezed while his face turned from red to purple.  He would tap and I would release for a second while I watched his face. I kept a close eye on him so I could gage how he was doing. Very soon after releasing the choke, I applied pressure again and he tapped soon after. I let go again for a second and slowly applied pressure again. This time he took a little long to tap. I was watching his face, making sure he wasn’t going to pass out on me and then in that moment I realized why I love doing sessions so much. I looked at his face and the man had the biggest smile I have ever seen. It was like seeing a kid at a toy store light up. He was smiling and gurgling and smiling and gurgling so much. He finally tapped. I let him loose and he said ” I knew you could be mean” and there it was. I had figured out what his “mean” was. It wasn’t causing him any harm but giving him the fear. I suppose he has been doin these sessions for a while. He has probably build up a resistance to some holds and chokes. It was the lack of a break between chokes that was the mean part. I didn’t let him catch his breath.
There is no greater gift in life than figuring out what the heck makes someone happy and being able to givef it to him/her without compromising oneself.
 So I got him in a rear naked with my left arm sunk deep, gripping the bicep of my right arm while my right hand pushed his head down….he tapped…i released but only for a second. Then I choked again….and tapped….I released and choked again. I could feel him panicking. She started to squirm and defend the choke…finally, now we were getting competitive. He starting trying to guard himself with his hands. So, keeping the arms around his neck, I grabbed his left arm with my left leg and trapped it so he couldn’t defend himself, then did the same with his right arm, with my right let. He couldn’t defend himself even if he wanted to. She had to call out “Tap” because I had his hands trapped. The gurgled “tap” came out of his mouth within seconds after I applied pressure to his neck. This type of stuff continued for an hour. He looked like the happiest man on earth and I was able to do that with my legs

When I Wrestler gets hungry

I have a confession to make. I have been wrestling more and more lately and I’m addicted. The more I grapple the more I want. It’s like a sex addiction or any other addiction. I crave it. I dream about it, I play with my french fries and make them wrestle…it’s damn near unhealthy!!!

I have several opponents I want to take on. Some that I have already taken on ( and lost to) and some that I would love to take on over and over again because one of us will win one time and then then next time the other will win. I feel a hunger to win some people at least once in my life and then wrestle then again over and over to see how each of us improves. Isamar is on the top of my list…Darling….Crimson Ninja…Nina the pirate…and of course, Dia Zerva, Robin, Sybil Starr, Dakota. I have lost to all of these girls at least once. I crave going up against them again to test myself. The matches would be fun for me, I don’t think I would cry if I lost or anything. I would be upset of course. I would be upset because I know how much I train, mentally and physically but I wouldn’t be upset because again, I know how much I train and if someone where to win me that would just mean they were better that day. I feel like I”ve been having good days. I feel like the girls i mentioned are the cream of the crop and I have a craving for the cream and the cherry on top!! I feel like highlander when I wrestle. When I wrestle the girls I take their power. I feel like since some of these girls I have not won yet that they have my power and I want it back!!!!!!

Again, I am mad with lust for sweat from hot ladies. This may not make sense to many of you but I wanted to share.

xoxo

Ariel X

Confessions, part 1

In case anyone didn’t know I share Admin responsibilities here with Ariel. No one wants to see my picture, which is fine with me!

This may be the only part, as there may not be much more to confess. After all I have led a very innocent life, so far.

I confess to being the biggest women’s wrestling junkie in the world. There may be worse out there somewhere, but I have some evidence in support of my claim.

From the time I began this I always shot the matches I wanted to see when I wanted to see them. If no one else ever wanted to see what I wanted I’d have gone out of business long ago. Still here. If I happened to get a few matches ahead, that was okay too. If the content was good people would want to see it.

So I am shot ahead a little bit, which is good because since I fell ill last summer I haven’t kept up a shooting schedule that would allow for weekly updates. But its also not so great because a lot of great matches ready to be released were actually shot 12-18 months ago. There is only one case I can think of where I think the outcome MIGHT be any different today than when it was shot, but that is a subject for pundits and experts and I hope we still have an abundance of them willing to participate here.

What is already in the can and ready? Among others:

How far ahead is “a little bit ahead”? About 52 weeks. I say “about” because there are a couple of turkeys in there that will either become giveaways (direct to member’s annex with a full VOD price of $1.00) or just never see the light of day.

So you know they weren’t shot within days of being released and I will be up-front about when they were, but as of today there is only one, where I think the outcome might be different today.

We shall see If there is anything else I need to get off my chest while time permits.

Academybruce

Robin’s Mini Tournament

Last Friday, I was lucky enough to be able to participate in Robin’s Mini Tournament. I would first like to thank all the sponsors who were able to make the even possible. I would secondly like to thank Robin and Sybil ( my two opponents for the weekend) for not destroying me too much and leaving me with enough strength and bodily fluid to make it home. So let me explain about the bodily fluids. I was sweating my ass off all day. Like an idiot, I forgot to NOT take my caffeine pill. I go on and off caffeine when I do cardio to work as a fat burner. I shouldn’t take it when I am doing a competition because it makes me jittery and makes me sweat like a pig and pee ever 2 second alas I did take it in the morning of the tournament. Well since I went ahead a brought up pee let me just say, the scissors these girls got on me almost make me pee myself…HOLY hell. I don’t know how I with held for the time I did in some of those damn holds.

I’d like to admit something to everyone, including myself. I’m not the most technical wrestler. I have a lot to still learn and I am willing to learn. The only thing I have going for me at submission matches is my stubbornness and extremely high pain tolerance. Being a bondage model has helped me greatly with patience and developing a sense of what I can and cannot handle…I will write a blog going into more detail of this at another time. I’d like to state that both Robin and Sybil are both definitely better “wrestlers” than I, you will see this in the matches when you watch this. I will not state who won each match but I do want to say that the matches were nonstop with many submission attempts and many submission escapes from both opponents. You will be on your toes at all time and I’m almost positive you will have to stop and rewind to see how some of the stuff happend. :).

As a relatively novice wrestler, I have taken it upon myself to find a role model in the industry. Robin is my said role model. I look up to her with such high regard and respect her on so many levels. I admire what she does for the wrestling community and for the girls who work for her. She is classy at all times even when under extreme pressure.

Sybil was an absolute delight to wrestle and watch wrestle…CAN YOU BELIEVE SHE GOT A ONE LEGGED MONKEY TOSS IN A COMPETITIVE MATCH!!! she did watch it in her match with Robin!!! I had an amazing time getting to know Sybil more and see she stay positive all day. yet another inspirational gal in the industry.

xoxoxo

The Stakes!

Sometimes I wish the HBO show “24/7″ would do a piece about our little world of naked wrestling. The show does a great job of depicting fighters (usually boxer) and as of recent, race car drivers, as hard working, hard training, fierce individuals. The show builds up the back ground of each opponent, how he trains, who trains them, what they do to prepare, what the stakes are for each fighter.

Recently I witnessed a fight that would have made such an outstanding 24/7 series. There was a beautiful, undefeated giant going up again a smaller, beautiful opponent with a not so perfect record who is well know for dominating in a ring which some people don’t take seriously. The stakes, The giant needs to keep her undefeated status and the little one has something to prove in order to be taken seriously.

I want to refer back to my blog about “the crutch”. On any given day, any wrestler can find a reason to give up. The smaller oponent, in this case, could easily say ” my opponent is so much bigger than I, she’s the champ, everyone expects me to lose” and give up and lose the fight. Let’s say the larger opponent is having a bad day, has worked out in a while, is just getting over a cold. All these can be crutches to lean on as an excuse for losing. It always comes down to “who wants this more”.

In the world of naked wrestling, fights are postponed because girls are having a bad day. They are not postponed if a girl was sick two weeks ago and recovering. Girls in the naked wrestling community have the choice to prepare or not for a fight. There is no training camp for us, we don’t have coaches. 99% of the fights the girls roll out of bed and say “oh yeah I’m wrestling today”. There are a handful of fighters who train for weeks and weeks to prepare for a certain fight that may be more important than others. When one fighter trains while the other stays static, the difference shows on the mats. All of us girls have personal lives. Some of us have kids, day jobs, families, health issues…the list goes on and on. Wrestling is not our life but for some of us it is a big part of our life. This is why i believe a 24/7 series on our work would be so interesting. To see what hardships, if any, the girls endure just to put food on our plates and work another day.

Let’s get back to the Stakes. I’d now like to refer back to another blog I wrote called “A Loss May be the Most Important “Win-*” for a Wrestler” where I talk about how when the stakes are high and pressure is on, a fighter can take a loss and either learn from it, and but motivated to work your ass off so it doesn’t happen again OR you can allow the lose to devastate you and force you to quit. I think the stakes can influence how each fighters allows a loss to affect them.

I’d like to ask you, the reader, who has more at stake. The one who is undefeated, or the one who has something to prove. Who do you think would be more inclined to be determined to fight harder so they don’t lose again and who do you think will give up after a loss and quit the business. No one wants to see a girl quit because she loses but it happens and it’s very sad :(. Let’s always encourage our fighters to persevere and keep us entertained.

xoxo

2/16/10

ArielX

When Jamee met Mira

Mira Li Wen was the most dedicated and hardest working wrestler we knew until Ariel X came along. When Mira first contacted us she was pretty self-confident: she said she was a “very good wrestler”. So we fed her to Rubye and Isamar back to back. Mira soon understood how little she knew and began her career as 0-2!
After a couple of easier matches, Mira ran into Jamee in SOAP 144 and got worked. I’d forgotten how much fun this was to shoot. Jamee, at the top of her game in every respect, was fantastic! Mira always trained hard and is very bright. Eventually Mira came back to defeat Rubye and Isamar, and beat the amazing Ariel X twice. But damn Jamee trashed Mira and screwed her stupid!

Jamee vs Mira Continue Reading…

Shannon Kelly

Man there must be a hundred female combat producers who wish they could have had the chance I had - to bring the unbelievably gorgeous and talented Shannon Kelly onto their mats for naked combat action.

Shannon Kelly is almost exactly 5 feet tall and 100 pounds of firy red hair and muscle and DD implants. Shannon is tough and rough and takes a particular glee in putting pain to women - witness the end of her match at US with Alexa von Tess.

I brought Shannon up once. Planned to do two matches. Got one. Called it a success and victory and got her back to the airport in plenty of time for her flight. LOL.

I think the Oscar winning producers and directors can put everything else aside and work with any talent that brings the dimension necessary to bring their vision to life. LOL I must not b made that way! Kinda lost track of Shannon’s contact info. I wish her well and happiness.

Shannon’s one Academy experience is on sale now. She is amazing and its a great deal! SOAP 117